• "Burnout isn't just in your head, its in your body too"

    A Whole Body Picture of Burnout

    Burnout Is Not Just Psychological — It’s Biological

    The World Health Organization defines burnout as a psychological phenomenon caused by chronic workplace stress. But biologically, burnout is much more than that. It’s what happens when long-term stress overwhelms your system — not just mentally, but physically and emotionally as well. Clinical burnout is your body pulling the emergency brake.

    The accumulated stress has become so severe that, in a final attempt to protect you, your autonomic nervous system shuts your system down.

    The Animal Instinct: Fight, Flight, or Freeze

    This kind of shutdown isn’t unique to humans. Animals do it too.

    When faced with a life-threatening situation, animals activate their stress response: they either fight or flee. This mobilizes energy and sharpens focus — useful in short bursts. But if the chase goes on too long, and the animal senses escape is impossible, the nervous system switches strategies. It shuts down. Muscles go limp, awareness fades. This is called freeze — a last-ditch effort to either numb the pain of being caught or trick the predator into letting go.

    Freeze and Burnout: The Shutdown Response in Slow Motion

    Humans experience this freeze response too — not only during extreme trauma like violence, surgery without anesthesia, or assault, but also during burnout. The difference? Burnout isn’t caused by one dramatic threat. It’s caused by thousands of small ones, stacking up over time. Not one lion charging at us, but the constant pressure to perform, respond, achieve, and keep up. In today’s world, we’re not being chased by one predator — we’re being prompted by a million opportunities.

    An Endless Stream of Micro Stressors

    Our nervous systems were designed for big short-term threats and rare opportunities. But we live in a world of continuous social comparison, endless choices and constant opportunity. This leads to a chronic low-level activation of fight or flight — and eventually, exhaustion. When your system realizes that no matter how hard you try, you can’t escape the stress loop, it shuts down. That’s freeze. That’s burnout.

    Your Body Is Saving Your Life

    When we view it like this, burnout is not a personal failure. It’s your nervous system doing its best to protect you. When you’re burned out, your system isn’t weak — it’s wise. It’s telling you: this isn't working. It is removing you from an unsustainable state and giving you a chance to reset. This may feel like collapse, but it’s also the beginning of something else: recovery, clarity, and a new way of relating to stress — one that honors the whole body, not just the mind.

  • How to get help:

    Chronic Stress is a Whole Body Problem, If you want to learn how to deal with stress, you need a Whole Body Solution.

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    Mind

    A big part of stress starts in the mind. What we believe (stress is bad for me, or: if I don't do this perfectly everything falls apart), fuels our stress levels. How we percieve reality is 100% created by our minds, and this has a huge effect on how stressed we are.

    To manage mind created, mental stress, we need to make sense of our thoughts and investigate our beliefs. Which restrictions and expectations are we putting on ourselves, that create stress just through our own thoughts?

    But addresisng thoughts is not the full picture. Mental stress is closely linked to physical and emotional stress. That’s why we need to include the body in the conversation.

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    Body

    How well do you understand your body? Can you feel your body, listen to it, trust it?

    Western societies often prioritize being ‘rational’ and ‘logical' over 'emotional', or 'physical'. We pride ourselves in letting our mind rule our body. I used to think like that when I was pursuing my career in psychological science. "Mind over matter" was my mantra. And when I am stressed, my mind still defaults to this deeply ingrained strategy.

    But this "mind over matter" mindset is a big reason burnout is common in western cultures. While a rational approach has and essential place (understanding the mind is paramount in overcoming mental stress), ignoring or overriding the body is a fast track to burnout.

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    Connection

    I approach stress from a (western) psychological science perspective, as well as a (eastern) philosophy and practice perspective.

    To give you more insight into what your whole body (including your mind) needs to thrive, we look at your sleep, nutrition, movement, and social support, all of which are fundamental pillars of physical, emotional, and mental health.


    To learn how to feel your body, I incorporate breathwork, meditation, and yoga into my approach. These practices help you reconnect to the sensations in your body, feel where emotions show up in your body, regulate physical and emotional stress, and re-establish the inuitive guidance your body can bring to your life, sparking your energy, purpose, and focus.

    To learn how to put everything in perspective, I include meditation, mindfulness, cognitive behavioral therapy, habit formation, and Internal Family Systems therapy in coaching you towards better health.

  • Big Dreams, Tiny Steps

    Start Getting Better Step by Step

    Approaching your stress from all these angles may sound like a lot. But I ensure you, recovery is a process you can address one step at a time, and I have designed tools to make this easy for you. Step by step, you will learn to better deal with mental, emotional, and physical stress. And eventually, you will learn how to connect mind and body, and feel like a more integrated person as a result.

    There are several ways to do this:

    Start with one of my online courses. They are divided in sub-parts, dealing with mental, physical, and emotional stress. Tackle them one by one, in the comfort of your own home. If you are curious which type of stress (mental, physical, or emotional) is most prevalent in your body, you can take the stress test below. You personalized feedback and advice on what to do next will be emailed to you.

    Set up a one-time coaching meeting with me. With one session, I can personalize a plan for getting you back upon your feet.